My husbands ex told him today that her grandmother can no longer watch ss7 so she is going to have him go stay with one of her friends overnight on school nights and get on the bus from there. So pretty much he will living with this other women we don't know half the week. My husband thinks this with all the other stuff like how stable our home is and the fact that we own a home and that I stay home full time.

We have my ss7 ALL SUMMER, he only goes home for one week in July to bm's because of my husband and his ex's divorce decree. So we are going to have rules. Well to start I put my foot down and my ss7 will be on his adhd medicine this summer, it will be better for him and for me and my bd. I figure with the focus he can get he will be able to spend a little time each day working on school work for the next year, I spent hours online today trying to find the most fun and educational work books and activites to do this summer for about an hour a day.

As some of you may now from my previous blog my stepson just said to me on Sunday in a very bratty and mean way that he hoped that I wasn't pregnant. I was hurt and angry after this since I knew it wasn't just him. The other week my mother in law told me that I shouldn't have another child, my husband and I have a 10mth old together, because I quote "it would be hard for my stepson" Forgive me but I dont' think how many children I get to have should be based on someone who is only here every other weekend and during the summer.

Does anyone else hate there mil worse then your husbands ex? A little backstory, my husband married his ex young and only because she got pregnant. Since they had no money and his ex was in school they moved in with his mother. He worked all the time and his ex not the maternal sort anyway went to school full time and studied the rest so in the evenings when his mother got home she would watch my ss. Thats great but fast forward two years they get divorced and his ex moves out with the kid and he gets an apartment with his friend.