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Submitted by bi on Thu, 09/11/2014 - 11:27am

Today is FDH's birthday. No card or call from SD22, as usual. I posted a happy birthday post on FB for him, even though he doesn't have FB. SD commented a happy birthday to him. DD19 texted him a HB this morning and then she messaged me asking what she could get him for his birthday. I think that pretty much sums up the immense difference between SD and DD right there.

Water your own garden, I have enough of my own to take care of.

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Submitted by bi on Tue, 09/09/2014 - 3:49pm

SD22 has sent me a few messages on FB and through texting over the past month or 2 telling me how sad she is that she never sees FDH, and he never sees BJ (Baby Jesus). She said it hurts her that he has a daughter that he "just forgets about" and a grandson he never sees and now she's having another baby and he won't see her, either. She's also upset because he hasn't seen her apt yet.

Great. A lot of good that did.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 12:11pm

I unfollowed SD22 on fb. She messaged me the other day some stuff about my brother's whore gf who is living in the same apt bldg. she is, and asked if i have a cell. I gave her my number and she texted me. I find it much more convenient to type on a keyboard than to text, so I knew she wanted my number and not just for that particular conversation. And yesterday she showed me why. Yesterday was her ultrasound, the one where she finds out boy or girl. (It will be a girl because SD gets what SD wants).

It goes both ways

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Submitted by bi on Mon, 08/11/2014 - 3:19pm

SD21 sent me a message the other day, starting out talking about not much of anything. She never does that, I knew she was warming up to her real reason for messaging. She said she's sad because her dad "has a daughter that he just forgets about", that she has a son and another baby on the way that he never sees.

He works 3rd shift and we do not live that close to her. He has 2 young kids at home. I told her we don't even get to spend much time with him (job).

baby names

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Submitted by bi on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 6:08pm

sd21 told me that along with her fil being a total and utter douchebag about his sons having to name their unborn babies after themselves if they are boys or he will exit their lives (see ya, dick!), bm told sd that she "would appreciate it if you gave the baby my middle name for her middle name if it's a girl." sd told me she loves her mom, but she doesn't respect her, and surely not enough to name a child after her. my bff seriously expected to be able to name both of my sons. any name I said I was thinking about, she didn't like. of course. because she didn't pick it out.

"She needs to stop breastfeeding!"

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Submitted by bi on Sat, 07/05/2014 - 9:27pm

went to in laws for bbq yesterday. sd21 is pregnant with #2. she was telling me how her fil (who from the sounds of things is an ignorant, outdated, sexist POS) was giving her shit about breastfeeding. she was 15 when ds6 was born. I breastfed, and i didn't go hide to do it. she told me that at that time, she had told people (I'm assuming her mom's family and her friends and bf) "she needs to stop breastfeeding". she said it seemed weird to her, because she had never seen anyone do that before. she said now that she has a child of her own, she understands.

Major hypocrite.

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Submitted by bi on Wed, 05/28/2014 - 12:02pm

sd21 has pretty high expectations for other people when it comes to events in HER life. she expects other people to make her and her kid's events priorities. after Baby Jesus' bday in oct, she posted on fb a thank you to everyone who came, and "I guess we know who's there for us", meaning if you were invited to his party and didn't come, you suck and are an asshole. you clearly don't care about them or you would have been there. I thought that was pretty shitty at the time, and even more so now. I don't get pissy when people don't show up for parties I host.

not everyone lives in your world

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 7:50pm

SD21 msgd me yesterday about an ongoing fight with her dh's brother and sil. they are always on the outs with them. one part of what she said really stuck out to me. she said that bil and sil never acknowledge or mention her pregnancy. well when she announced it on fb (when I did that years ago, I was a horrible person for announcing it on fb instead of telling her and smil in person), sil did congratulate them and said she's hoping for a niece. I guess that's not good enough. apparently sd thinks her pregnancy should be the subject of all conversations when she is around.

Wow BM. Those must be some good meds you're on!

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Submitted by bi on Fri, 04/25/2014 - 1:18pm

BM is on pain meds and smokes pot regularly, and she sells both. That came right from sd21 not too long ago when she was complaining about her mom. So her mom says she was hard on her kids when they were young and that's why they aren't assholes now. That they have good manners and are respectful. I can't say anything about her son, but as for sd21, dream on, bm. your daughter's manners could most definitely use some help (basic shit, like thanking people, has always been lost on her) and she is one of the most disrespectful people I have ever met.

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