my SD has been out of the house in a temp group home for a few weeks now and up until now she has been kissing staffs ass but she has been having major issues with the other girls in her cabin. SD is 11 and even though there is a younger girl at the group home my SD is still the smallest. but her attitude continues with all these older girls and a few days ago she was caught wearing bracelets belonging to another girl..she has also been caught by staff in several lies and continues to attempt to manipulate staff. the staff are very well trained in dealing with girls like her so their now fooled. my SD aims to please so she can get her way and wants attention on her 24/7 no matter who it hurts. so i think she sees all these other girls shes living with as more competition than anything. im waiting for the phone call from the home telling us my SD got her butt kicked by one of the other girls. my SD will bully and pick on other girls (some smaller boys) knowing that they cant do anything to her cuz all she has to do is tell then they will get in trouble..little brat has even tried that on me too..in the past we had great days getting along only for me to later learn she was going to school telling her teacher i was beating her or mis-treating her in some way. then she called me thursday three times so i finally cave and call her back thinking maybe it was important..it was so NOT important and while talking to her it seemed more like casually bragging on her part than anything else..all i heard from her was "oh i got to do this and oh yeah we went to a cookout today" not a damn mention about what shes working on just strictly focused on what shes getting and how she has her own little radio in her room..its like big friggin deal once your butt is 18 NONE of that is gonna matter! no i didnt say that lol but man was i thinking it! she acts like such a spoiled brat though her dad and i do not spoil her and never have..idk what her problem is but i dont give a damn anymore and i quit caring after awhile of being manipulated and lied to..yep i gave up on her ass and nope im not going to try anymore ever..yeah shes 11 but i swear shes like that little girl from that move bad seed..only a matter of time before she really hurts someone..a few months back i ha d a complete stranger knock on my door to tell me my SD was up the street walking in front of moving cars! what made it worse was she had her 8yr old sister doing it with her! im sorry but i think shes a monster and a sociopath and will NEVER change no matter what..i can see jail in her future and constant abusive relationships cuz she likes to push peoples buttons to the point they want to slug her well one day someone probably will..sad but true..sad truth is is her bio mom is exactly like her in every way shape and form..my SD hasnt got as large as her bio mom but i give it a few yrs and she probably will gain so much weight..shes a horrible excuse for a daughter and a sibling and i only hope that neither her brother or her sister want nothing to do wth her when their older! sorry if i piss anyone off but its the way i feel!