Like that's any different from these past two weeks. Or the past five years.

She came home from counseling this afternoon and told FDH that her therapist thinks that when there's a problem in the house, all three of us should sit down and talk about it and that she agrees with him (which makes me think she's being dishonest about what goes on in our house because that is what we do ALMOST every time - save for one time when SD had to apologzie to me when FDH was sleeping and the hullabaloo with the dog).

Yesterday was another counseling session that got devoted to the SD hullabaloo rather than focusing on me and the reasons why I'm in therapy. It's hard not to resent the fact that so much of what is supposed to be time for me to deal with my own crap gets devoted to SD and FDH's antics in relation to her anymore. It's necessary right now, but, it would be nice to have a week where I can just work on my anxiety and the crap from my family of origin.

So, my guess is FDH wanted to fix things asap so that I would stop disengaging because, why, heaven forbid SD doesn't have someone fawning over her on the weekends? *Shrug*

FDH and I had a date tonight and when we came home, FDH noticed something on SD's arm. She wrote all over her arm in blue sharpie "Shut up" repeatedly.

Seriously?

She tried to make the claim that it's three days old which is just yet another lie because a) she was wearing a t-shirt last night and had no such markings on her arm and b) she was in a t-shirt all day today and had no such markings on her arms. So she did those tonight.