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So I'm not supposed to do anything for myself???

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Wednesday is of course 4th of July. DH's brother/sister in law live 2 hours from us and have invited us to their house for the day/night. DH of course won't be home because he has to work. SS has to work 12-6, SD has Wednesday off work but has to work at 9:00am Thursday. I have Wednesday and Thursday off.

More laziness!

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When will these Skids get a clue? There will be no more free ride I tell you. Shit is going to hit the fan cuz I am tired of them being lazy, sitting at home doing nothing to find better jobs, or go to school, and expecting a free ride!

Last weekend, DH asked both Skids if they had done anything about college fall semester, both said "no but we will". I didn't say anything, I wanted to see how this would play out. DH drops subject, doesn't give them deadlines, suggestions, anything.

OT, kinda but not. I'm the only one taking care of the puppy!

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So apparently I'm the one that's going to be putting all the effort in to crate training and house training our new puppy. Oh and I'm being nit picky.

My expectations

-Puppy is watched AT ALL TIMES if he's not in his crate.
-If he can't be watched (read: they don't want to watch him) , in his crate he goes.
-If he's in his crate, he needs to be taken outside about every 2 hours.
-If he's not in his crate, he needs to take outside about every 30-45 minutes.

Quit playing stupid little games!

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Things have been relatively quiet here since I read SS that letter. He has talked to me some, but about nothing of importance really. Fine by me.

This week has been super irritating though. When he's going to go do something with a friend, he tells his dad, who tells me. Then yesterday, he went swimming with friends. I was on the phone with DH when SS18 texted his dad saying he and his friends were going out for pizza after swimming, and what time did he need to be home?

My letter to SS18

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***I read this to SS when he got home from work. Pretty damn proud of myself, I stayed calm and didn't yell a single time. I asked him if he had anything to say to me afterwards, or anything he wanted to discuss that I had just said...he said no, so whatever***

Not appreciated -

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I am so tired of SS treating me like an asshole. He doesn't get what he wants, he becomes this rude little jerk. I go out of my way to help him, bend over backwards to make sure he has everything he needs, even during the week when his dad isn't home, and it's still not good enough.

Update, more frustration

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SS 18 still has not finished his class and SURPRISE, his dad gave him til the end of February to have it finished. I've heard it all before, except he told SS if it wasn't finished by end of February, he can find somewhere else do live.

Do I think he'll stick to his guns? Definitely not. He hasn't before and SS knows this. He was told he needed to get 1 unit done per week, he's already behind.

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