Oh it burns the shit out of me when SK's call for money saying "Child support isn't enough, that money only pays bills,food and gas for the car" Who do think told SS14 to say that?? But then we see BM with new clothes, new cell phone almost every couple months, nails done, hair done, hanging out drinking!! But CS isn't enough!!

I would be less sick of CS if she had a job and wasn't always shopping. Anytime we go to drop the skids off she's at Target. Yet all we hear is I need more money blah blah blah... And when she mentions well I don't understand how you guys don't have money you both work full time and just have the basic bills. I wanna be like really cuz we can't save up for anything we want to buy. It's all about you and the skids isn't it?!?!?!? I didn't make them, they are not MY responsibility!!! And CS is supposed to help you support the skids not be entirely their sole support!!!

Me too!!! It makes me want to puke that our entitled, selfish, stupid and vengeful BM thinks that SHE's entitled to my husband's income, which he works his ass off to provide. When they were first negotiation and H told her that if she didn't lower the price, we wouldn't be able to provide many things that the skids eat, let alone put food on the table. She is incapable of empathy/sympathy and refused, saying, "but, I want the money and you owe it to me for leaving me!!!!" He patiently tried to explain that the CS has nothing to do with her, is not for her and is specifically for the skids. She was a total bitch about it (surprise) and refused to be reasonable. For us it was about providing the skids with what they need (most of which we supply at our house anyway) while for BM the CS is about H giving HER money to spend how ever she wants because he "owes" her for dumping her!!!! She's so crazy!!!

On a happy point though, H realized that he'd been paying way over the court ordered CS amount and called them and they told him to subtract what he overpaid from the next CS check, which will mean that it will be less the half of what it usually is! On top of that, the judge refigured the amount of CS (and this is before the CS situation will be resolved and she'll get even less or hopefully nothing. We now have to pay almost a hundred less a month and BM won't know until she gets her super small check in the mail! I am not normally a vindictive and bitchy person, but it thrills me to death to see that selfish, greedy pig not get exactly what she wants and all of H's hard work will go towards bills for his family, not some crazy woman who thinks she "should" have anything she wants because she "wants" it.
This means we will have a little extra money per month and it will get larger and larger as we move forwards and hopefully eliminate CS altogether, for us.

Anyway, as mean as this is, I am looking forward to her hissy fit, because it will be satisfying to see her actually have a consequence.