DH and I go to couples counseling a couple times per month. This last session was interesting. The counselor told me my resentment is totally normal but she also thinks I am depressed and overly anxious and need to see a psychiatrist. Of course DH was in full agreement with her and went on a diatribe about how "negative" I am all of the time. While I don't deny that I have always had a more "glass half empty" way of looking at things (and I know that I need to work on it)... it was still hard to hear.