Hi all! it's been a while but since going to court things have for the most part been calm. There is course have been snags here and there (some of which I have blogged about) but for the most part it's been fine. The reason I'm blogging today though is there is something that Bm has started up recently that I'm not sure how Dh should go about it.

A while back Bm text dh demanding a change to the time Ss gets dropped off at our home for dhs visitation. Basically what was going on was that her dh had a change in his work schedule and so she was demanding to change drop off from 4pm to 8pm because they operate on 1 vehicle. Dh said no, drama ensued but dh stood firm on his decision and she backed off.

When Dh and Bm went to court it was established that Dh would get 3 wks in the summer. We're on our first week of that visitation and Bm text dh demanding to talk to Ss. I feel like she did this to try to see if Dh was off work this week with Ss-Dh is not off. Ss is with my brother who is babysitting him right now. My brother is 22. Dh said he's with the babysitter and now Bm is flipping out demanding that Dh bring Ss back to her because he's not physically with Dh and according to her, he's in violation of the CO.

Bm contacted Dh today asking him to drop Ss from our health insurance because she said the co-pays are too much and that she doesn't need it anyway because they are only using her new husbands insurance for Ss's doctor's appts because co-pays are cheaper. I posted a post about this a few months ago when she told Dh that Stepdad was adding Ss to his insurance and from what I've found out, the person with the earlier bday is the primary. Well, Dh has the earlier bday in the year so that would be mean Dh's insurance would be primary and Stepdad is secondary.