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Don't give in to all of the HATERS and their negativity

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Submitted by 2 tired on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 4:24pm

i suppose what some of you all do, is simply take ones mind off of one's OWN PROBLEMS.... because its so much bickering that we are allowing the negative people to over come our own personal problems.... which actually makes me laugh. IT allows me to not stress out as much about my personal problems... THERE ARE MUCH BIGGER PROBLEMS HERE... I BELIEVE IN ADVOCATING FOR YOURSELF, BUT I ALSO BELIEVE THAT YOU PEOPLE THAT ARE HATEFUL LOSE A LOT OF GROUND IF THEY ARE SIMPLY IGNORED!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU LADIES!!

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Submitted by 2 tired on Tue, 08/17/2010 - 2:51pm

well, while my day started a bit shaky because i was caught off guard in regards to a situation with bf and his daughter and her mother, I feel okay now.... emotionally I was down today... BUT BECAUSE THROUGH some OF THE COMMENTS I REALIZE THAT I AM STRONGER THAN MANY WOMAN ON HERE THAT TRY TO KEEP someone that is sad, DOWN... THESE individuals are sad people, and I would NEVER WANT TO BE A NEGATIVE PERSON, TRYING TO ONLY HURT OTHERS. SHAME, SHAME...

REGARDLESS, of if someone is a GF or WIFE

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Submitted by 2 tired on Tue, 08/17/2010 - 1:53pm

Regardless, of if I am a GF or a wife, I posted this situation trying to get sound and reasonable advice from any REAL WOMAN that can relate... As women, that come to this site for advice, we shouldnt judge other woman, because it really reflects a negative disposition about that person that is placing negative judgements.... Especially when the posts written are simply snapshots of that persons life / situation when they may be at a emotional downturn....

I am tired of FIGHTING..... i need advice

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Submitted by 2 tired on Tue, 08/17/2010 - 11:39am

I haven't wrote in a very long time.... I moved out of the house that I lived in with my BF, his daughter and my son in January... My son and I moved into our own place.... It has been great, I started to see my BF every other night, close to the time that I actually moved out. He works 2nd shift every other night when he doesnt have his 11 year old daughter... So he just comes over after he gets off work.... He still talks aobut wanting us to have a future together and taking it to another level.... Here is my problem, his daughter started junior high....

MY DAILY EVOLUTION

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Submitted by 2 tired on Thu, 12/10/2009 - 2:59pm

since joining this group i have learned so much about myself and other individuals that are in similar situations that i have found myself in..... I have discovered however a lot more about my relationship becuz of ST.... i find myself more calm and not being sucked into conflicts with the FDH or the FST... I have come to realize that while she may be manipulative, sneaky and a story-teller, this isnt all of her fault... I NOW CAN SEE THE LIGHT, and the LIGHT SHINES ON HER FATHER.... HE HAS ALLOWED this behavior to occur.

WHERE TO GO FROM HERE

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Submitted by 2 tired on Tue, 12/08/2009 - 2:01pm

I feel like i have so much to say and write.... this is my safe haven.... i have made many changed in my life recently in regards to my FDH and FSD. I feel like i know what i must do, but in that choice there is a great amont of sadness.... i am curious on the opinions of the many individuals that are facing similar family situations. I have written blogs in the past and have recieved a lot of great advice... but i just need some advice once more... In August my BS who is 6 told me that he was missing money from his wallet, i listened but didnt react, he then told ne this again...

ANY THOUGHTS PLEASE!!!

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Submitted by 2 tired on Mon, 12/07/2009 - 2:07pm

Last week I wrote about how my life was so not cool because of the tension and stressful environment that I had to deal with at home because of the SD10.... I talked about how manipulative she was and how she has made my life unbearable when she is with us (her father and I). Well, last week I also posted about how I was done with this stressful relationship and that I was unwilling to get married because it would only get worse as she gets older…. A LOT HAS CHANGED SINCE that post... I did go and sign a lease to an apartment.

WEIGHT HAS BEEN LIFTED- YIPPEE!

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Submitted by 2 tired on Mon, 12/07/2009 - 12:00pm

Last week I wrote about how my life was so not cool because of the tension and stressful environment that I had to deal with at home because of the SD10.... I talked about how manipulative she was and how she has made my life unbearable when she is with us (her father and I). Well, last week I also posted about how I was done with this stressful relationship and that I was unwilling to get married because it would only get worse as she gets older…. A LOT HAS CHANGED SINCE that post... I did go and sign a lease to an apartment.

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