I really just need to vent or I'm going to go crazy. I met a good man, a very good man. He has always gone out of his way to prove that he cares about me. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over four years, getting closer to five. When we started out, my two girls were the only ones in the picture completely. I will say (judge away, it can't change the past.) A couple months before we first got together he had gotten another girl pregnant. They were never officially a couple. He also had another daughter who lived with her mother in Kansas (we're in Kentucky).