thought id share some of my bm's hillarious texts from yesterday regarding DH taking her back to court for kids to be with us during week and her on weekends she has had alcohol issues and has betten kids and bruised them just so u have a little back ground

BM: I left it up to the kids if they wanted to stay one or two nights they both said one.

DH: They both said they want to live with me. And I will be keeping them both nights. And it is your turn to drop them off to be because this is the way it has beem the last 2 yrs.

BM:okay and again they tell me a different story. They both say they want to live with me. I'm going by the court papers. I'm concerned about there mental well being and the games your playing with their head isn't okay DH's name.

you can pick them up Saturday and I will pick them up Sunday

DH:If you want to go that routt, u are the one damaging thier well being, ur drinking has effected, them the most, u have been married and are currently living with another guy and his two kids who treat them poorly. I can provide the stability u are UN able to do, bribing them with material items does not help them.The current court papers also say I will be picking them up xmas eve at 8pm is that what you want?

BM: I never held them from seeing you. but what ur doing is not healthy for them all because u don't wanna pay the child support u deserve to pay. your being selfish u know your kids love their mom and for u to try and take then away is so wrong.

DH: Actually this has nothing to do about money.I am looking out for my children.We will see what the judge thinks

Bm: okay you can't fool anyone Dh's name. as soon as I tell u I'm taking u back.to court for more child support cause u refuse To help pay for stuff I get your paper Work. funny. The judge can decide that's fine. until then I'm going off the court papers. I don't trust u and I don't know what your motive is.

After everything I have done for u I can't believe you would even do this. my kids do not need this mental crap your putting in their head. I m a good mom and they need me. how could u?? not ever did u talk about anything you just pull some dirty shady shit. cause u don't wanna pay what you should

DH:By the way I heard ur ex molested his daughter

Bm:more hear say. I don't know if that's true. that girl lied about so much stuff I caught her in myself .,who knows if its true.

Dh: And u tnink that is ok, u do realize daughter was around that. And u really think they are better off with u??

Bm: he is my ex for starters. he hasn't been around for 3 years and its,hear say if you only heard half of all the other things she said about him who really knows. she's as crazy and demented as him. he's gone and out of the picture

you have hurt me so much in this life time when are u going to stop breaking my heart? my kids are my world and my everything. They need me. I'm a good mom and I do anything for my kids why do I have to start all this drama. its gonna be so ugly

DH:I dont think it will be ugly, once u think about them and not yourself. Its one extra day with my kids

Bm: believe in all of my heart they are better off here and In the situation they are in and have been their whole life.

DH: Not ur heart, ur mind u know the truth

BM: my heart .. my mind and my gut think and feel the are better off with me. the easy thing for me to do would be give them to you. the selfish thing would be give them to you... I don't think that's what is best for them and this is why I haven't. parenting is the toughest thing I have ever done and again the easy and selfish thing would be giving them to u . they need me and are better off here

DH:Ur actions and the fact u leave me out, say other wise, its my time

bm: I don't leave you out Dh's name. you left this k
family. you moved to BFE. you chose to be enemies when I have begged you for a friendship and parenting team you denied me (mind you we only live 40 min away if not less she kicked him aout because he was going to school for the field he is in now and because he didnt want to do illegal stuff to make easy money)

my kids need their mom and I will not give up on them. DH's name I let u see them when ever. I have never held them away from u. how do u repay me with this court drama. the kids don't need this

Dh's name I will not give up on by children no matter how far u push me

Dh:Its one more day how is that giving up?

Bm: cause they get to see me everyday before bed and when they wake up they need their mother Dh's name.

just when i thought she could get any loonier nd i have a feeling i havent seen her at her worst.