CPS and MIL and Nutburger
Nutburger is back to texting after a 2 day reprieve. Apparently now she is ticked and it is "bullshite" that MIL told one of the SKIDS that the reason they cannot stay here with me without dad around is because CPS was called again and we were drug tested and embarrased and lied about (leaving BD7) home on Sat nites. MIL told SD14 that Onebright is not going to take the chance of having BD removed from her care, or have to fight her EX for custody because of these lies so she(me) isnt willing to spend time alone with you all.
YAY MIL!
But, of course BM says MIL had no right to say those adult things to SD14 and her therapist told her(BM) that that was just MIL "mind fu!*ing" the SKids and if Onebright is innocent she has nothing to worry about and CPS cant remove children from their parents and apparently Onebright is guilty(im not) and she(BM) is requesting a copy of the report.
So rather than tell her kids to quit making shite up and they brought this on themselves by being evil liars. She(BM) is pissed that MIL told the skids the TRUTH???
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No they still come, but have
No they still come, but have to go to MILs when DH isnt around because I refuse to be alone with them. So apparently skids are bitching about it to MIL and she told them why I wont be alone with them.
They make up crap and tell BM and she makes up more crap. I want witnesses at all times.
Being alone with you is a
Being alone with you is a priviledge the way I see it.
I went through a phase last summer where I refused to let SS6 swim with the other kids since he wouldn't listen to me. I didn't tell him NO, I simply told him I wasn't allowed to let him swim BECAUSE he didn't listen to me - that I was sorry but that had been his choice and he had to wait until his dad came home in order to go into the pool.
I only had to apply it for about a week, everytime he asked I simply made a sad face and told him sorry dude, I can't let you swim because you don't like to listen. I put it on him the responsibility.
Now really , I couldn't - I mean, if he got hurt which was a very good possibility with him refusing to follow the simple rules of don't jump over the steps, don't run and don't jump in the shallow hottub... I wouldn't have it - I have 2 kids of my own, its fine if he breaks his arm with BM (which happened) but OMFG - if that ever happened with me when DH wasn't here - she'd have CPS on me faster than I could blink. I don't need that crap. SS refusal to follow simple rules and BM being a nutjob cost him swimming time. I don't feel the least bit of guilt about that - you gotta cover your own ass.
I do try, like you, to throw
I do try, like you, to throw it back on the skid. And I told SO today, that I dont give a crap what BMs Therapist says. His kids will get the truth from me from here on out.
Stand your ground. I don't
Stand your ground. I don't blame you. MIL has the rights to tell a 14 yr. old that her lies have cause problems.
Well thats the thing, the 14
Well thats the thing, the 14 yo and one of the 8 almost 9yostwins are ok kids. Its the other 3 and their mom that make up the crap. And I told SO that it sucks those 2 have to pay for their sisters lies and their moms PASing, but I cant take that chance with my just turned 8 BD. I mean, If they will lie about us smoking pot in front of them and me leaving BD7 alone, then whats next? Ya know? And CPS doesnt play, They take kids away and you are guilty til proven innocent if the accusations are bad enuff. So hell yeah, I am way standing my ground on this.