SS in our bed -- again
I am sitting in the living room, watching the news and having my morning coffee.
SS wakes up and immediately went into our bedroom and climbed into our bed -- on my side of the bed, with MY pillows and blankets.
I just went in there and kicked him out. I have told DH at least a dozen times that I don't want his kids in our bed. It's inappropriate. I hate it. It's MY personal/intimate space and it is no place for step-kids (DH's kids or mine).
In addition, I still have to get ready for work, which means that I need to have access to my room.
DH needs to step up to the plate on this one.
I am getting pissed.
I especially can't stand it when SS is the one who is in my bed. He is already up DH's ass so much when DH is awake, and intentionally interferes on every conversation I try to have with DH or when DH tries to sit next to me, etc. So to have him climbing into our bed -- and to lay on MY side, with MY pillows, and MY blankets? NO WAY!
I JUST NEED A SPACE THAT IS SKID FREE AND IS ALWAYS SKID FREE!
This is on top of the fact that DH and SS were up until 1am playing video games and it's only 6:30a.m. and SS is awake and trying to climb into bed with DH. Dude - space!
I can already see the writing on the wall: "welcome to skid-widowhood."
This is one of the biggest reasons why I hate having this kid in our home.
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THEN, I just went to make my
THEN, I just went to make my breakfast only to find that DH let SS eat of my ham.
Now, when I say MY ham, please let me explain: I am counting calories by weighing food and using the WeighWatchers PointsPlus program. I've been consistent for the last 3 weeks. The ham that I am referring to: 1 slice is 0 points. I have been making myself my own "Egg McMuffin" at home with a whole grain muffin, 1 egg, 1 slice of cheese, and 1 slice of ham. It's a powerhouse breakfast for me, because all of the protein really fills me up for a long time.
DH is aware of the fact that I bought that ham for me (he doesn't like it), that I use it for my breakfast sandwich, and that one slice is 0 points for me.
So why the f*ck would he let SS eat it? ESPECIALLY WHEN I bought DH the kind of ham that he does like (honey baked) and that is still n the fridge?
Why?
Oh right, because I don't f*cking matter when it comes to SS.
Seriously.
And DH wonders why I cant f*cking stand having this kid in my house. Around me. Near me. In my life at all. And why I don't want to talk to him or even so much as look at him.
Why would I when my own "D"H treats ME like sh*t simply because that kid is around. I realize it's not the kids fault, but my DH is setting a precedence that I don't matter. The kid already treats me like I don't matter because of that precedence. It's f*cking bullsh*t.
I hate it when this kid is around. Even more than that: I hate the piece of sh*t that my "D"H becomes when this kid is around.
What I don't understand is: when SD is around, "D"H doesn't act this way. Sooooo....????
I bought some candy bars
I bought some candy bars yesterday. Be ause dh will ensure Ed knows thy are there, and sd has no control and they will be gone in a day, I actually didn't tell him and hid them in my dresser in my "secret hidden drawer". Felt sneaky, but I don't wampnt them gone when I have a craving!! I understand about the bed too, that's one of my biggies. Same reason no kids pictures are allowed in the bedroom!
I am so grateful we don't
I am so grateful we don't have those issues with the skids.
Houx, I don't know how you have lasted this long.
How is the new babY????
It has not escaped my
It has not escaped my attention that the fact that the skids still climb in our bed, like it ain't no thang, is because my DH has clearly NOT had a conversation with them about how our bedroom is off-limits to them.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah, exactly.