My H decided last night that he doesn't want to call BM's aunt to ask her what's going on.

He doesn't think that it matters. He does believe that BM is having financial issues, but that her "being so candid" with him about those problems feels like she is just trying to get more money from us. He feels that the phone call from BoulderBalls just means that BoulderBalls himself is pissed that he is having to pay BM so much money and that he thinks that if we give BM more money, BM will leave him alone.

He doesn't think that there is any reason to call her aunt. He figures that if BM is trying to run some scam, that's her business and that there is no reason that we need to get involved into it. He wants to just stay out of it.

That's cool. I will honor my H's decision regarding how he wants to handle this situation. They are, after all, his children. And I am not willing to expend my energy worrying about something that he doesn't want to worry about. Why waste my time.

So...

Huh. Guess that's that.