Actually despite being evicted things have gotten better. It's like SS is back to his old self. Apparently FDH's mother told him I was a liar and some other choice names so SS was afraid of me. We have told SS he can ask anything and we will be honest with him. I also told him I couldn't answer some questions without his dad because I wanted to always be truthful with him. He had to wait until his dad came home to find out about us moving and he kept asking questions about when his grandparents would get visitation. After FDH came home I was able to tell him that I would not lie and say he would see them when I knew FDH was going to.say different. I also told him that I could reassure him things would work out but I couldn't give him details. FDH had to give him those. He said he understood and is back to hugging me and telling me he loves me and just plain hanging out with me.

This morning SS and DD both gave me cards and SS actually had a Stepmom card. He even gave me one of his stuffed animals. I missed that kid the past month or so. He spent the day with his BM and that was ok.

We had a long talk with BM about what was happening and she is on board with restricting grandparents access to SS. She was not happy to hear they were claiming she said all the stuff about custody and that they PASed SS. She then talked to SS and he told her grandma said all the stuff but told him not to tell his parents or grandfather. SS told BM he felt guilty for telling grandma's secret. WTH? BM said she told SS if anyone tells him he can't talk his parents or another adult something then he needs to walk away and tell one or all of us about it.