Brief background; I'm 33 and have no bios (yeah unlike BM I don't suffer from the entrapment uterus syndrome) and DH si 38 and has 1 ss aged 10. Anyway had a very interesting conversation with SIL today....apparently when BM fell pregnant DH's family told her not to go ahead with the pregnancy as she was too young -she was 18 adn DH 28. According to SIL BM though it would be "glam" to have a baby and was hoping for a girl she could dress in pink sparkly outfits and take shopping.BM was devastated when the baby as a boy-she remedied this sure quick by having DH over a barrel as she gave birth to his only son!SIL admitted today that BM is not the brightest spark and apologised profusely for ever introducing BM to DH.....she also mentioned she felt responsible for SS existence.