Me and my SO of 4 years recently broke up and.are.not living together . We have a 17 month old baby together and.he has 2 boys-9,14. SO watches the baby when im at work M-F 8-6. So I still see my skids almost.everyday. I'm just curious if.there is.anyone.in my position.---Where they are still kind of a step-mom. Its a complicated situation and I would.like to hear others experience