Am i wrong fir wanting BM to take her kids with her back to her home state. She is visiting her kids for the first time.in 18months. She has been here since.the 7th and is staying till the 29th. I really want desperately for her to realize that her son,my SS9 should be with her. He talks.non-stop about how.great she is. When in reality she is probably one.of.worst most fucked up people I know.--read my blogs!! I have been taking care.of.for.4 years no breaks and he is just.so.needy and annoying. He needs attention 24/7 . I can't give him that. I work full time then I come home and have to chase around.my toddler for.the remainder of the night until I pass out from cooking,cleaning,child-care. BM doesn't work and has her new " perfect family" with her other 2 younger kids --3 and 4. I am so tired of doing her job when she is perfectly able.to.do it. My SO works.all the time.and.is.trying to start off his business away from home.so he can focus more.on work. He currently works at home in the evening and takes.care.of the baby while I work in the day. I honestly want her to take responsibility for her kids because I'm tired of it. I wish she would see how difficult her kid is for her own self. She took off when SS9 was a baby and pops into their lives when its convenient for her! It drives me crazy!!!!!! I hate this woman.