does this make me the bad guy??? PRT 2
So I just finished reminding DF to make sure to tell BM about keeping SD9 for the week he will be out of town and this is how our phone convo went....
(Read my other blog, Does this make me the bad guy??? to get more details.)
ME: Don't forget to tell BM that she needs to keep SD9 for a week while you are away.
DF: Okay...But what happens if she tells me no..then what?
ME: she wont say no. She has no choice she is her mother. She is unemployed she has plenty of time.
DF: Remind me again why you don't want SD9 for the Week
ME: Because I need to have some alone time.
DF: Well I want alone time and I cant get it.
ME: Well its different for you.
DF: How so?
ME: Because on like you I have NO kids.
DF: oh okay I will ask BM...
The nerve of him to ask me about HIS alone time!!! like he needs it!! Dumbass.
Note: HE gets plenty of "Me time" during the weekends and sometimes during the week when I let him go hang with his friends while I watch SD9. Ungrateful prick!
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i agree with this. DH may be
i agree with this. DH may be working, but he's getting a break from home life. and that is a big break!
I hate it when the parents of
I hate it when the parents of their kids say they need "me time" our BM pulls that shit all the time. It is stupid you decided to have kids step up to the plate and be a parent it makes me sick when I hear that. "me time" well you should have used birth control!
FYI I love my FSD's it is the BM that makes me crazy. I hope one day karma will bite her in the ass.
Do you have children? Unless
Do you have children?
Unless you are super mom or dad, you need time away from your kids.
Some parents (married and single) take vacations without their kids or send the kids to grandparents for the weekends so that they can have time without them. It's normal and healthy to want some me time.
That said, the OP's husband is being a jerk.
^^Agree^^ I didn't have "me
^^Agree^^
I didn't have "me time" for about 10 years when they were little.
HE gets plenty of "Me time"
HE gets plenty of "Me time" during the weekends and sometimes during the week when I let him go hang with his friends while I watch SD9. Ungrateful prick!
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He really is isn't he? I hope you stand firm on this. That was a good come back though. lol
Do you think it may be time to make your DH start parenting his own kid and you back off a little bit...?
Yup, You are right about
Yup, You are right about "letting" these things happen to me. Its true. I"m the one who volunteers to do things with or for SD9 because I know sometimes DF needs help and I just do it out of the kindness of my heart. But enough is enough! I have NO children at the moment. I shouldn't have to watch SD9 because I'm with DF. The child has 2 parents who can step up to the plate! I'm done! I will Focus on me now. DF needs a wake up call and needs to stop expecting/assuming that I will do things for SD9 just because I chose to be with him. It doesn't work that way. And he should have been considerate about my request for "me time" instead of getting upset and asking about his time. (its a week! not months or a year!) He should have thought twice before sticking his dong inside some dirty bitch. Not my fault he didn't use protection. Not my kid and it shouldn't be My problem.. They can figure it out!!
These kids are not our
These kids are not our responsibility. We didn't have them their parents did. If I want to do it, fine, but don't assume I will because I have a uterus...
Thankfully, DH doesn't assume anything anymore with me.