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He found out what it feels like and he didn't like it!

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Submitted by TXpollyanna on Thu, 10/06/2011 - 4:12pm

My DH now knows what it feels like to be treated like poop and he doesn't think it feels so good.

The "surprise" party for my SD is tonight - family (Her mother/Sdad and sister) will be here in town from out of state. Ex wife called DH yesterday and said "you are not invited, it is my surprise, I traveled all this way and I don't you, your wife or her kid (adult kid) there either". He was mad and hurt.

I heave read on this site, time and time again, about how sooner or later they will see things from my side and until they do, the nasty behavior will continue. I read those things and told myself it was never going to happen so I just needed to grow "a pair" and turn my back on the Skids and move on. I never thought in a million years it would have happened to him. I thought they all were just fine with treating me like poop and that they would never do it to eachother. I was WRONG!

What goes around, comes around. I'm thinking - someone is rethinking their behavior....big time!

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Submitted by Most Evil on Thu, 10/06/2011 - 4:59pm

Ha, ha, ha ha ha-!!!! It is a shame it took that for you to get the support you deserve-!! HUGS

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Submitted by Kes on Fri, 10/07/2011 - 6:20am

Well, if that is what it takes to make your DH see the light, I am glad it happened. Maybe now he will "grow a pair" as you have had to do.

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Submitted by TXpollyanna on Fri, 10/07/2011 - 9:44pm

Friday 9:30 p.m.
That didn't last long....freaks, all of them!!!!!

ME:"So, what are you doing tomorrow?"
HIM: "to the shore - water park"
ME: "okay" SD#1 is going to XXXX Festival
HIM: "doing that Sunday"
ME: "Why are you doing that? SD1 going and we (you and I always go"
HIM: "She can do what she wants with her BM. When will I ever go with SD2? YOu and I can go any time"
ME: "Never mind, you do what you want, I won't make any more suggestions"
BOTH SD's - I look over smiling at one another......

ME (in my head) F*** You if you think I am going to that festival with you again and you damn brats can bite my ass.

Nothing short of a sledge hammer is going to get through his thick freakin head!!!!!

Advice to all y'all thinking of marrying someone who has kids from a previous relationship.....RUN!!!!!!!!