Okay, DH tells me last night that I probably would not be invited to join in ANYTHING the family that is visiting will be doing because (and I quote) "they probably are going to feel like they aren't coming here to visit you, so you don't need to go." What the F does that mean? It means - You aren't invited cuz they aren't here visiting with you, they are visiting me and I am not going to tell them it's rude. In fact, he actually told me that him telling the Skids it was rude was no different then making him choose sides which he will not do. I spent a full five minutes explaining that telling your kids that it is rude to exclude your WIFE just because you didn't specifically come to visit HER is NOT MAKING YOU CHOSE ANYTHING OTHER THAN TO DO YOUR JOB AS A PARENT!!! When I realized that he is the jack-ass that fathered the ungrateful children and most likely caused their piss-ass attitudes towards me by way of a poisoned gene pool, I gave up.
Not gonna care anymore
Not gonna listen to them when they talk crap to me anymore
Not gonna be around when they visit - gonna do a lot of shopping on his debit card
Not gonna send card, gifts or send a "happy birthday, mother's day, valentines" text anymore.

They don't want to see me? They can stay in a hotel (he can pay for it) or they can shut-up

whew....do I feel better! Got that off my chest.

I am gong to lose my ever-lovin mind!!!!