Boyfriend went away for four days yesterday to work, somehting extra to his normal job, leaving me with the crap he has currently left behind.

He seems to think that they will listen to me while he is away but I doubt it very much, Ive asked the youngest one (the college drop out) to do a few chores while he is at home and I bet he doesnt do them, Id be very surprised. Ive also told youngest that his other two brothers arent allowed in the house while Im out and his dad is away... Im dearding going home because I can just picture the mess the house will be in because he has so little respect.

Im seriously thinking of making him and my boyfriend leave the house when he gets back from his trip away this week. I dont need this any more, i need someone who can make me happy, and while he makes me happy when we are alone, we get hardly any time alone together as they always seem to need something.

Sunday morning, eldest called (at 2.30 am) to say he had been in a fight and what should he do about it, should he call the police or just go home... WHY WAS HE RINGING HIS DAD... AT THAT TIME IN THE MORNING... AND WHY DID HIS DAD ANSWER THE PHONE...