Dearest boyfriend said to me last night that the other of his two sons have asked him what he is going to do about the alcoholic gambler... Like he can physically *make* him do anything.... Id like to know what their mother would say, in fact Id like for their mother to do anything other than call and say she wishes she could help but shes *so* far away she feels helpess... It was her choice to leave, nobody elses.

Eldest stepson now has a new job but wants his dad to give him his bank details to have his wages paid in to because hes over £3k in debt in his own account and they will just take all of his money straight off him.... The fact he has stolen money both off his girlfriend and his grandfather would make you stop and think... Maybe I wont give my thieving son my bank details... or is there something Im missing here

Youngest son has definitely finished with University, he has spent the last four days at his girlfriends house so that we cant ask him to do anything.... and his work have cut his hours back because they figured he should only work weekends as he is studying.

I give up!