I just want to say thank you to everyone who has helped me this week in my lil crisis. I have decided I am definitely going through with it. I know most of think if I have doubts I shouldn't but I don't have doubts about BF or SD. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with those two. No matter how bad SD is. I'm praying that BF and BM can start compromising and it will get better.

I think we had a breakthrough last night with SD. BF took her to dinner and then sat down with her (and BM) to talk. He just told her how much he loved her and wanted to spend time with her. He got a calendar and proposed a plan to help her be at our wedding and BM's birthday and one night during the week for dinner.

I sat him down and had a big talk with him about how I needed him to help me and not fight with BM. We discussed all my fears (he has none) and I think we have really worked through them. He is putting his foot dowm and compromising with BM now instead of just doing what SD says. I really think SD is going to come out okay if she will just realize how much we love her.

Thanks again!