So DH has grown SD from his marriage and biological 7 yr old son. After divorce had a gf and they have a 4 yr old. The 4 yr old lives with the mom and her husband and her son who is the same age as DHs son.

Now DH is all about his son. His daughter lives in another state and is supported by another man. When we first met he gave me this sob story but now it doesn't add up. I think the 4 yr olds BM is a good parent and he has to answer for his lack of parenting with her. It is so much easier with his son who's BM is a nut job. Still, it's wrong.

I'm so sick of poor little SSs suffering because his mom doesn't do enough. ( sarcasm)But honestly other than being an idiot and not disciplining SS is the same thing DH does. She isn't neglectful and over indulges poor little SS just like DH. The kid has a PlayStataion 2 & 3 and an XBox 360 just for starters and he is 7.

Also his gf was with him and SS for 3 years and they want nothing to do with SS. What does that tell you? She has a son the same age as SS and they were together for 3 hrs and even he doesn't miss SS. SS never talks about his sister.

How can a father throw himself all over one child and not do for the other? That's why I have a problem with his "guilty daddy" routine with SS.