I wrote a week or so ago about how I had written a letter to bm ( I know, bad thing to do) I expected the evil return message from her, but not the one I got from the skids. Now for the problem,,, Since then the girls (13 and 15) have not been over. They refused to come the weekend after it happened. Dad turned off their cell phones as part of their punishment for the way they treated us. He also told them that they needed to apologies.I have not had any contact with them since it happened. This coming weekend is our's with them. From their facebook posts I get the impression that they have no intentions of coming over. Do we force them to come over? Will it make things worse? My first thought is to make them come and at least sit down and have a long talk about it all. If they want to spend the rest of the weekend in their rooms, good for them. Any thoughts? We are almost expecting them to not be around when it is time for Dad to pick them up. Any advice would be appreciated!