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Well tonight is the ball game

purpledaisies's picture

tonight is ss14's football game. It is going to be cold. Anyway we will see how it goes. I'll let you guys know if bm tries to sit next to dh. I know she will try saying the boys want to be next to him but the boys are 13 and 11, why in the world can they not walk to dh instead of bm having to be right next to him?

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purpledaisies's picture

Thanks for the figures crossed and yes I will be bringing lots of blankets. Smile

I wish she would stay a few rows from us and let the boys walk to see us but alas she uses the excuse that the boys are too young to walk by themselves and she HAS to sit that close so they can see dh! :sick:

caregiver1127's picture

Really too young at 11 and 13 why those poor boys - are they still sucking one her teat as well - Don't you just wish you could stand up and scream when she goes to sit down next to you all - "LISTEN YOU CRAZY B_____ GET THE HELL AWAY FROM US - YOU ARE SUCH A SKANK AND YOU MAKE MY SKIN CRAWL!!! Okay just had a nice moment there were I was imagining you being able to do it - or have the cheerleaders do a cheer that goes something like this - 1, 2 , 3, 4, - who is that skanky whore - 5, 6, 7, 8, can't you sit near the gate!! }:) }:)

purpledaisies's picture

I love it I am over laughing so dang hard! thank you so much! And yes I want to yell "CUT THE APRON STINGS ALREADY!" Those boys are way too dependent on her. She wants them to be, she told the boys that! ss14 tells me all the time he hates how his mom thinks she has to do those things for them. I know his frustration as I had a mom that did the very same thing to me. I remember when I was 12 and went to the park and she made us go down the slide and that was all we could do and it was in her arms! I ran off and got in trouble, I just wanted to play like the other kids!

Anyway we are talking about a mom that brags about the dentist telling her to stop brushing her kids teeth for them! That is how bad she is.

caregiver1127's picture

Believe me I had the mother of all protective mothers - I have 17 brothers and sisters and my mother had the ability to track us down all over the world I am not kidding my sister was backpacking around Europe when she was younger and my mother tracked her down and this is before computers and cell phones - I remember when I lived in New York - my mother had the cops come to my job and thankfully I knew them but they told me to call her she was worried - never allowed to stay over anyones house unless she talked to both parents and also called them at night and made sure I was not out having fun - that being said she also taught me to be independent and that I could do anything I set my mind to - she just has always been worried about us - she died a few years ago and I am sure she is happy as shit because she now can see where we all are every moment of every day - well I hope not every moment - lol

Our BM actually tried to send SS16 unaccompanied minor this summer out here to us - the airline agent cracked up when I told him that SS was 16 he though I had said 6. It really hinders them from growing up and all it shows is that she is nuts! It is amazing what these BM's think real mothering is - they are so far off it is unbelievable.

on the fence's picture

I just don't get it. Why does the BM want to be anywhere near DH? It's OVER! She should sit somewhere else. She is not part of your family. As someone pointed out, the boys are old enough to walk back and forth. I can't imagine wanting to sit near my XH anywhere!

purpledaisies's picture

I don't want to sit anywhere near my ex either! I think she thinks they will someday get back together. :sick:

Why she thinks that I don't know as dh has made it very clear to her he wants nothing to do with her. The only time they talk is when she calls and he never answers he let her leave a mess and if it is something he thinks he needs to talk to her about he will call her back, or if she texts him and he most of the time won't respond unless it is about the kids. Sometimes if she sends a text and it is accusing him of things he will respond but for the most part he doesn't.

SillyGilly's picture

Oh thank gawd my BM doesn't do this. Probably because I am 10 yrs younger and 60 lbs thinner (mwahahahaha). Ok, enough about me.

Ummmm...don't most 13 year old boys not want to sit with EITHER parent because it's not cool or they want to be with friends? Naturally, an 11 year old would follow along...... ???

I hope you went late and picked to sit where ever you want and by whomever you choose!!

GoodbyeNormaJean's picture

When you say "cold" do you mean so cold that the water in a Super Soaker Mega Blaster 2000 would freeze? You DO have a super soaker don't you? If not, get on down to Target, they may still have a few on clearance, and remember, just a few drops of bleach in a half gallon of water isn't enough to burn the skin, just enough to leave bleach marks on the clothes.

In fact, now that you have skids, you should have one for sporting events, and a small one for the glove box. The smaller model still holds a solid 3 cups of water, and the stream will make it from the driver's seat to the back seat of a 15 passenger van with enough water pressure to make them wince if you get them in the face.

Have fun at the game!