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Submitted by Pantera on Fri, 07/09/2010 - 9:06pm

DH comes home to get in the shower because he's going out!!! I could f'in punch him!!! Then he turns and says to me he doesn't know why I am so upset. Then goes on to say I can't stay because I hate his child. What???!!! I said that I didn't like SS but I don't hate him and that DH should open his eyes and see what SS is doing because I am not the one doing the things that SS is doing. What an asshole.

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Submitted by 1day@atime on Fri, 07/09/2010 - 9:13pm

That sucks. Sounds like a justification to go out. Even if he believed you hated his child, you are his wife, and you are about to leave. Seems like he doesn't know how to handle it and he's definately not taking the high road. Sorry you're going through this.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Fri, 07/09/2010 - 9:28pm

Wait! He's going out and you aré keeping HIS kid? Please tell me that's not the case!!!

DH tríed that ONCE! I told him "see ya, have fun...I'M going out...I have no kids!"

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Submitted by Shannon61 on Sat, 07/10/2010 - 11:21am

I had to set my jackass straight . .I mean my DH straight on me not liking SD (26) not because I'm malicious but because of her character or lack thereof. I reminded him of all the crummy things she's done to me and to him . .then I decided to sit back and keep my mouth shut. I also reminded him that she didn't like me.

Now he's starting to see her character flaws as well. Give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves! Bottom line is . . I don't have to like her, she's not my F child period!

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Submitted by Pantera on Sat, 07/10/2010 - 11:34am

I can't waste anymore time waiting for SS to hang himself. He is 10, DH has full custody. His behaviors aren't normal and are directed at me and DH does nothing to correct it. I posted on another post, I think its easier for DH to say that I hate his son then it is for him to admit his son does wrong. I don't like his son right now, but I don't hate him.

I actually did tell DH last night that "BM doesn't want SS, DH doesn't want SS and works instead of being home because of him, so why should I want SS?" He got pissed but its the truth.

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Submitted by Pantera on Sat, 07/10/2010 - 5:19pm

I did not go out, but I had fun, lol!!! And you are right, the truth does hurt. Its killing me right now. It will all work out how its supposed to and I will be fine.