DH has made more of a conscious effort lately to reach out towards SD12 more. Last Wednesday he didn't get a text or phone call from SD12 on his birthday... wish he would have glazed over ir. But he texted SD that she forgot? I thought that was kind of weird. Anyway, DH invited SD12 to a soccer game with him on Saturday. SD said that was fine, but wanted to make sure it was not Friday "because I have an interview with Social Services." WTF? No clue what this could be about, but obviously something with BM since she has been over there for two weeks. Can't wait to hear...

DH and SD12 end up going to the soccer game. Honestly I was surprised bc she is pretty flakey. SD12 told DH who made the phone call. Apparently BM's current boyfriend lives with her (knew that), and also has a kid of his own (but only 3 years old). The boyfriend's "baby momma" called Social Service for "touching." Of course SD12 said she was giving the 3y/o a piggy back ride and guess the BM was "jealous" and didn't want her hanging out with her daughter. DH told me all of this when he got back from the soccer game. He said it sounded ridiculous and totally blew it off saying she was "being accused" of stuff. And the boyfriend's baby momma was probably "getting back at" SD12.

I usually DON'T speak up. But I made sure to give my opinion this time. I said if I were that BM with a 3 year old I wouldn't want them about SDs house either! SD12 lives hald of the time with BM... including the 17 y/o hald brother and his girlfriend staying over. I know they vape and probably use pot... I don't think this BM was "getting back at" SD12. I flat out told DH I don't blame her and would be calling myself too! 

He said nothing. I already make sure SD12 is never alone with DS1. Not that I think anything sexual would be going on... but she is totally irresponsible and has made comments about how much she doesn't like him... Enough to make me think she could at least indirectly hurt him. 

Thoughts on BMs boyfriend baby momma making the call for SD12? I don't think it's out of revenge or anything... she just probably wants to look out for her little 3 year old that is around trashy preteens and teens at this dude's house...Also, opinions about DH brushing it off? I thought it was weird, but GLAD I stood up for this person I hadn't ever met. Thoughts?