Feeling of dread already here and it's 30 minutes into the return to our house.  The kids are grounded, and SD just magically decided to not come here after at school but rather "go to her mom's" - in the car she is not allowed to drive at our house but magically brings over every time.  BM (who wants us to enforce her every single whim) somehow refuses to make her get a ride / take the bus on the day she is to return.  I digress......DH has already caught her lying about "being at her mom's" to avoid grounding but yet she just failed to ask / doesn't show up.  ZERO respect for my husband.  I want to scream.  I am already dreading summer.