The 17 yr old is still staying with her friend & their family; not home yet. Two weekends ago, SO and I were on our way to the public market where she and her sister work but he got a call from her first - screaming at him that he called the cops on her (he didn't). Apparently someone called the cops to locate her and sent them to her boyfriend's house. He already knew where she was staying and we were about to go the market to see her. Last week, she was at her mom's to talk when both of them got into a loud, vile argument with SO's sister (she lives a few houses down from them). Now, both of SO's sisters have told him that his 17 yr old is no longer welcome in their homes. I guess this past weekend, someone called the cops AND child protective services so this 17 yr old brat is super mad at her dad and won't talk to him because she believes he made those calls. He tried telling her (by text) he didn't and that it doesn't make sense to think he did because he knows where she is and has been to the friends house to talk to the mom. She texted back the foulest things to him. This happens all the time - she gets mad at him for whatever reason (usually things the BM is telling her)and cuts him out of her life for awhile. Then she needs something and calls him like nothing happened. Since he's used to parenting out of guilt, he just resumes his relationship with her. The BM called him about the cops and CPS, crying & saying he has to do something. My comment to him was...did the BM ask you if you called the cops? Answer was no. I think that's strange because I would want to know who called. I think its obvious that the BM is behind all this - just her latest crazy scam - and she's telling his daughter that its him. They're both nuts. Anyway, he lives with me so I told him she is not welcome in my home until I hear her apologize to him face to face. He agreed thankfully. I think he's finally fed up with her behavior.