I know most of you don't know my back story as I have been MIA from here after a huge controversy over me posting a hate rant SD posted on youtube about DH a couple years ago. I was kicked off after some back and forth drama over it. Anywho, things have been good so I wanted to come back and offer advice to others. DH and I have been married for 10yrs next month, we were friends and played in a band together for about 8 yrs before that, so our girls grew up together. SD has been used as a weapon by BM from conception, DH stands to inherit a good amount of money so I suspect that is why she got prego on purpose and tried to trap him and it would have worked had she not cheated on him repeatedly, to the point of cleaning out his bank account and moving in with her latest fling multiple times. They were married for 2 yrs most of which they were separated.

Since SD was small she has thrown a fit when she didn't get her way or something she wanted, she got used to calling the shots because her grandparents catered to her every whim, because she was the child of divorce and such a victim. She has been severely PASed by BM and taught that men are to be used. She has threatened to slit DH's throat, she has threatened my daughter multiple times, she has broke into our house, she has stole from my daughter, myself, her grandparents, my mother, etc.

Well last year BM kicked her out at 16, we refused to take her due to the past and she hadn't spoken to us in over a year oh wait she came by at Christmas to get a gift card and left. SO DH's mother and step-father let her move in with her dog. She has recently acted like she was trying to rebuild a relationship with DH and my daughter, we were optimistic but cautious.

DH gets a frantic phone call from her last week that her BF was yelling at her and her step-grandfather informed him he would not speak to his grand daughter that way. Her BF proceeded to threaten Step grandpa, who is 72. DH drives over there and when he shows up the BF had called the police because he is terrified of my huge husband (and he should be) They got a no trespass order and SD said she would get a restraining order and she was done with him. Well now she has been staying at a friends house for the last 4 days because she is seeing this piece of crap (who she admitted to DH that he has slapped her) and she keeps asking DH to bring her food, pop, cigarettes etc. He has refused, so now she posted a late fathers day to step-grandpa how he has been the best and only father figure she has ever had and thanking him for taking her and her dog in when no one else would. :sick:

So things have been so peaceful around here and drama free and now here we go again! DH refuses to bring her anything so she can hang out with BF, all she has to do is go home if she needs these things. By the way he is STILL paying CS to BM who refuses to give any of it to SD or DH's parents to help with her upkeep. It is court ordered and taken out of his check. We also found out when BM was on speaker phone with SD (she was asking for some of the CS money) while my daughter was there doing her hair and makeup that BM has been copying our grocery receipts when we go to the store she works at. We only go there to by nice cuts of meat for the grill because they have the best meat case. She said she planned to use them if DH takes her to court to try and stop CS, to show we buy beer...lol DH doesn't even drink and when he rarely buys me beer it is a 12 pack of Coor's light. This is how stupid this women is! She thinks the judge isn't going to say first of all what you are doing is illegal, second of all how can you prove it is their receipt, and third of all they are over 21 and SD doesn't even live with them so what is your point?

I believe the only reason she is doing that is because she is jealous as hell that we both have good jobs, nice cars and a house that is paid for thanks to a early inheritance gift from DH's grandmother. (We bought a foreclosure for $12,000 and did about $10,000 worth of work to it so it's not like we have a fancy house by no means. Ugghh will this crap ever end!!!

Oh and on a side note SD told DH when he took her out to dinner last week that BM told her she had been with over 70 men :sick: I can not even fathom! She also apparently took a picture of her cootchy and asked SD if it looked normal and it turned out she had both chlamydia and Tric. She has also had worms multiple times, she is a extremely disgusting person!

So now SD is sneaking around behind everyone's back seeing her BF and trying to get them all to support her while she does it (and probably him as well!)