Well, DH may be purchasing his deceased moms house. Fingers crossed that he gets approved. So far, everything is looking good. If he gets it, I think I'm going to look into getting my own place as well. I love my DH, but I'm not in love with him. The hard times between us outweigh the good. There's always some sort of drama or something going on that I can't deal with or want no part of. DH made a comment to me the other day and it hit me like a truck. He said that he wanted to build a tree house in the backyard of his moms house. I chuckeled and said that "you're a little too late for that now that your kids are both teens". He said, "well then I'll build it for my grandkids" :sick: ... GRANDKIDS!!!! Holy Hanna how hasn't this crossed my mind before?!?? We have full custody of ss14 and ss16 I've wrote off. He's a slimy kid who tried to lie and fabricate to the courts about DH so he could go back and live with BM after child services removed them from her care. I can't do this for an entire lifetime. I don't want to build a wedge between DH and his kids. We've made it 11 years together but I thought it would be over in another 4. I was only fooling myself. Ss16 has dropped out of school, has no job and is a bum at bm's. Now she needs surgery and that lying sneak is staying at OUR HOUSE until his mom is out of the hospital. I never agreed to any of this. So what, I get to leave my house to him while everyone's at work and school?!?! I would NEVER support a bum!!!! I'm sick of always butting heads with DH. I just don't know what to do. When I really sit there and think about leaving, I get sad, cause I love him. I just hope I can figure it out and make the right decision. I just can't imagine grandkids being dumped on us. Hell, I'm 33, most people are just starting a family at that age and here I am worrying about their stupid kids who aren't even here yet. I'm so confused