This year, we're celebrating Christmas on the 27 at a cabin in the mountains!!! I can't wait. It has a hottub on the deck that overlooks the beautiful mountains. It's going to be me, DH, young SS14, my dad and fur babies. Ss16 threw DH under the bus back in August and moved back in with BM and hasn't spoken to DH since. Except once when dh's mom passed away and once when he needed a ride somewhere. Needless to say, he's not invited and I don't want to see him. I am so excited for this!!! Ss14 has never been in a cabin before, which is crazy cause we rent one at LEAST twice a year. Ss16 made his bed and now he can sleep in it. Dh's family has a lot planned between now and the 28. I've tried to make my plans according to what ss16 won't be at, but he's already bailing on 1/2 the plans. I said I would go to a supper, cause ss16 said he wasn't going to that one and now DH told me he was going. There's no way in hell in going to that one now. I can't be in the same room as that sh*t after what he put myself and DH through. I sudden feel a 24 hour flu coming on... merry Christmas stalkers! I hope you have a safe and happy holiday season. And that Santa is good to you. Lord knows us SM's (and dads) are saints for the crap we put up with!