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BM was "in the hospital"

Annoyed1's picture

Update to my last blog, https://www.steptalk.org/node/226812. So, we've had SS16 for 2 weeks and DH was working on a project in bm's town. This morning BM texts DH and says that we'll have to keep ss16 longer cause she sick from her "surgery". Not 3 hours later, DH sees BM walking down the street, fighting with her BF. BM wasn't in the f'ing hospital!!! She's back with her BF who was a big reason all her kids got taken away by CPS!!! DH told BM that if she's healthy enough to be walking around town fighting with her BF, then she's healthy enough to take back her son who she lets be a bum. Good riddance. I can't wait til I get away from this drama! And who the hell fabricated a story about getting surgery to their kids?!? Make them worry for nothing while she party's it up with her criminal BF. What scum.

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robin333's picture

So, is SS back at BM'S? I find it insulting to truly ill people when someone like BM feigns an illness, let alone surgery, to elicit sympathy and skip responsibility.

I am a b*tch so I would never let DH forget about BM'S fake surgery and how allowed himself and you to be used and manipulated. Well, I would do that at least until he knew how disgusted and p*ssed I was.

Tuff Noogies's picture

if i was your dh i would have video'd her, and kept it running while i walk straight up to her and say "surgery, eh? u're a lying skank@$$ worthless POS, and a $#iity-@$$ mother to boot."

Annoyed1's picture

Ss16 goes back today!!!! YAY!!!! And, it's the last time this is going to happen too (yeah right). I told DH that ss16 is not allowed to just sit around our home while we all go to work and school. He's welcome on his weekends (EOW) to visit and that's it. If bm's having "surgery" or whatever nonsense, she can make other plans for ss16. We do not support bums sitting around the house all day. I told DH that BM was lying but he didn't believe me. Now ss16 gets to go back to bm's 1 bedroom apartment and live the life he chose. I hope he likes sharing a bed with BM and her psycho BF. Cause he sure as hell ain't coming back under my roof to live. I'm done playing bm's games. Something happens every 6 months where she forces her problems into OUR home! Not again. she can keep her problems and ss16 over there.

DaizyDuke's picture

If I had a dime for every shitty parent who has lied to me and given me one of the following trademarked excuses when I have to threaten a hotline for non compliance... I would own my own tropical island somewhere!

1. Sorry, I was in the hospital
2. Sorry, a family member died
3. Sorry, I was sick

It makes me sick that people lie about shit like this. When I was in third grade I lied for the first time about being sick to my mother, because I just didn't want to go to school. She believed me, I stayed home. By later that day, I really WAS sick and ended up with a horrible case of the chicken pox. I knew it was my "punishment" for lying...my first thou shalt not lie lesson.. lol