So lately I've noticed that on the days DH argues with me...the very next morning, SD12 will leave milk spilled on the table or crumbs & peanut butter on the counters. She will also talk sweetly to DH on those mornings and say "love you daddy," which she never does any other day.

It's almost as if she believes DH and her are on one team and I'm on the other. So when DH yells at me, she takes it as an opportunity to leave a big F.U. for me to wake up to the next morning, as if to score a point for Team DH/SD.

I'm about to go off at this useless DH.