But still so much better. Sometimes I need to remind myself of how things were not all that long ago and get a better grip on my rose colored lenses. I've dropped everything with them. Every little thing, and the best part of this year was actually remembering something that I normally would have dealt with. No reminding DH about anything.

I felt a little guilty, but got over it really quick. Thought of all the times that there was stress, arguments, canceled vacations and so much anger and resentment.

They've finally all got their own relationships in order or as best they can for themselves. All is good, at least for and with me. DH stopped telling me anything unless I actually ask, lol, and the very best part, paying down and off the lawyers fee's that had accumulated over the years.

Still wish it had all turned out better, but it is what it is.