Update to this blog: http://www.steptalk.org/node/213129

I asked DH "So what did MSD have to talk to you about?" (I was going to leave it alone but felt the time was good last night to ask him and I was curious still.)

First he acts all confused and acts like he didn't hear me and I'm just like :O . I swear that man cant handle any communication when it comes to something he is uncomfortable with.

So finally he said when he and YSD were go-karting on Sunday, that MSD had called and was pissed that DH didnt take MSD go-karting too. That he didn't ask her to come along.

DH said he told her, you are an adult now. You have your own place, a kid, a job, a boyfriend. I guess she didnt like what he had to say because she hang up on him.

DH said he told her, he was spending time with YSD. After all, this was technically his visitation with her, his minor child.

Here is where it gets a little confusing.

So Monday is when she texted him wanting to talk to him in person.

The way DH described the story is that Sunday she hung up on him, Monday she texted him wanting to talk to him because of what happened on Sunday and then he just never responded back to her.

However, I know he did call her on Monday, because I saw it in his phone in the history. Not sure if she picked up or not?

Either way, DH didnt say what they talked about on Monday, if they did indeed talk. I'm assuming he just didnt want to go into what they talked about and just wanted to drop it.

Fine with me. I can get the jist of what the conversation was about.

I'm actually VERY surprised that DH didnt feel obligated to take MSD with him and YSD.

This was something that actually got on my nerves. It seemed like he could never do something with just YSD, he always had to take MSD and SS, who are adults.

And I am here thinking like when the hell is this going to stop? Is he always going to be taking his adult kids out on "dates"? Not that I dont want him to spend time with all of his kids or spend money on them, but taking 3 adults (YSD16 is almost an adult) out for dinner, movies, go-karting, etc it gets expensive. especially when its technically on his visitation time with YSD.

Not to mention that I felt like I couldnt even be open to YSD being around or all of us doing stuff because MSD always had to tag along. And that fact that MSD and I do not get a long at all, basically made me not want to be around YSD.

So I guess the good thing is as far as I know she isn't pregnant and isnt asking DH for money. And DH is starting to realize that MSD is an adult and should have her own life and not be up Daaaadddy's ass. And that maybe evil SM Zero isnt so evil after all