I have said before that when YSD and MSD are together, its awful! Its like the gang up mentality. They both feed off of each other into their dislike of me.

At Xmas Eve dinner, YSD and MSD basically ignored me and wouldnt look or talk to me.

However, MSD left early while the rest of us had dessert.

As soon as MSD was gone, YSD was super nice and talked to me. She actually started the conversation. It was even a little enjoyable having a conversation with her.

Of course I could have been offended that YSD couldnt talk to me when MSD was around. But instead I embraced it and enjoyed the moment. No ugly stares, no rude comments, etc.

I feel that YSD isnt fake, like MSD. YSD will tell you to your face she doesnt like you, while MSD will smile in your face and stab you in the back.

I imagine its hard for YSD. Her 2 older sisters dont like me. BM doesn't like me. YSD has been caught up in this drama for almost 3 years. While I do think she is old enough to make her own choices, I can still imagine its hard.

I think seeing her open up to me as soon as MSD was gone showed me a different side of her. Not saying that she likes me, but maybe we both kind of had a thought of hey I guess the other isnt so bad after all.

Since DH and I first got together I didnt really "like" YSD. She is the baby, spoiled, whiney, the princess. Just her overall personality is something I dont like. But we never had a falling out. As in she never did something directly to me or vice versa. Or I never showed her that I didnt really like her. I wouldnt even say I didnt like her, but she was my least favorite because of how she acted and how DH treated her. (different then the other skids)

I just think over time, issues with MSD took over and that affected the whole dynamic. I think she followed in her sister's foot steps because it was easier then liking me. I think I picked up on it and over time I was like Fuck it, YSD isnt my favorite person anyways.

Just doing some thinking. This isnt going to change anything in the dynamic of how things are now.