right heres my blog, my life, my situation................ ive had some nasty ex's in the past everyone has .... im male 40 year old with a 31 year old fiancee... i love her to bits, but her ex is a ass (im being very polite) my partner has two kids from an ex that she was with for 12 years, their relationship fell apart and he used to wait for her to fall asleep and then "have his way" shes a deep sleeper, ive got three harassment calls to the police against him in three years, we had a baby january 2014 he obviously didnt approve, ive hit him once (it was self defence - im a 12years active kickboxer, so know the law) our problem is this he needs to bugger off under his rock and leave us alone, weve had the last 6 weeks of hell he told us we would never last hes had 6 relationships in the time weve been together, we are strong only time we argue is over "HIM" my partner has never denied access, but recently our (his) 11 year old went to stay at his girlfriends house(she punches fridges when she's angry) and her own 10 year old wees in a bottle as the toilet is downstairs........ ooh and the spare room has a rabbit living in it too, the room our (his) 7 yr old sleeps in....................anyway while the 11 year old was there he got accused of searching online for "naked women being raped" my partners 11 year old is wrapped in cotton wool we shelter him from the world. his own "DAD" said it must be him as he knows his son and it cant be his girlfriends son at all ..............bull pooh (polite) he didnt want to speak to his his dad for 6 weeks we actually believed the 11 year old......... he is his dads first born golden child and dad flashes the cash and he goes running ... dad can buy emotions too, his part time dad had a quick chat and everything is fine again but his dad still thinks hes an internet porn fiend??? .....................anyway the superdad rang child services on us because we argued over him(he heard about it) i rang them asking for the report, they said he had been told to go away, while on the phone i reported the internet porn issue to them they were horrified .........................just had enough now and want a life with my partner, her kids and my daughter, her ex needs to back off thoughts please ????