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New house and new problems come along with it...

rainbow bright83's picture

My oh my! We are getting down to the wire. This weekend we will be moving into the house. Its not all finished, but it we will be able to live in it. We have been doing drywall, then tomorrow the plan is to start siding. We have one bathroom mostly plumbed. Just need to put in drywall and then the shower head. We still have to paint the interior and exterior, get our pellet stove in, and carpet put in. I am very excited to be getting into a bigger house. That being said, its also a curse.

The sd13 has been causing much trouble. She comes over when its not our weekend and then causes problems for everyone. She comes over without permission, she lies about how she is getting back to the BM, and is non-stop irritating DH when he has told her that if she comes over on his non weekend she needs to be helping on the house (which she doesn't, THANK GOD!)
So because of the lies and drama she has been causing, my DH says that from now on she will not be staying at the inlaws. Since we will be in a bigger house she will be staying with us.... UGH!!!!!

To those who might be wonder why this is a problem long story short- she molested my son years ago. I still do not trust her around any children. She is also a thief- tablets, cell phones, money, anything worth of value. She abuses my pets- I've seen her kick a kitten into the side of a house. Sad

I REALLY dont want her in my house. Since we have lived in the house we are in now (3-4yrs), she has stayed here less than 10 times.

I'm really dreading this. I cringe thinking about her being in my house. :sick:

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AllySkoo's picture

Not just no but HELL NO. She molested your son? How can you even THINK of allowing her to stay in the same house as your kids? Molesters don't stop for god's sake, they just get better at hiding. Under NO circumstance should she EVER be in your home overnight, or unsupervised.

rainbow bright83's picture

She is not allowed to live in my home since i kicked her out 7 years ago. She was 6-7 years old when she was molesting my son. (Thank god he does not remember this as he was very young) She had to be put in counseling as she was also caught molesting a little girl in a school bathroom. (She is also a victim of molestation herself, and i do not use this as an excuse for her actions)

To clarify, she does NOT and will NOT live in my house. She "visits" EOW and stays at my inlaws.
The issue is my DH (due to the drama that SD has caused) wants her to start staying at our house on the weekends she "visits"
She is NOT allowed to be in my house unless I am there to supervise. This has been a rule since we found out what she was doing.

That being said, i just hate her being around my kids, not to mention other kids. And yes, i've told my kids they are not allowed to be around her at all by themselves. And yes, they know why.