Should have known
I should have known that things were going too well. SD15 has called DHS and reported that my DH beat her and that over 4 years ago I threatened to shoot her with a bb gun. ugh!!! Of course I have never threatened to shoot her or any child. SD15 reported other things against my DH, but DHS has not informed him of the other complaints. SD15 has told DHS that she lied and made up the story about my dh because she is jealous of his relationship with me.
I can honestly say that this blindsided me. I wasnt expecting this, but I have prepared for something like this to happen. I stopped talking to her 5 years ago. She is not allowed to my house. I keep telling my DH that he needs to cut all contact with SD15. This is not the first time she has made up lies. Last year she made a false report about being sexually assaulted.(Law enforcement investigated and she came clean that she had fabricated the report)
I'm just so frustrated because this doesnt just affect me or my DH. Now my kids are being dragged into this mess along with my in-laws since supposedly the slapping happened there. My DH keeps counting down the days till she is 18, but just like his other daughter who is now 20 (she is constantly asking for money and lying) i have found that it never ends.
Sooooo FRUSTRATED right now!!!!
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I just can't even imagine how
I just can't even imagine how to deal with this situation. I agree that the only way to make sure your family stays safe is to just cut her off entirely.
Slanderous little b&%$*. At
Slanderous little b&%$*. At least you can cut her off completely. Put no investment (time or money) into this brat. You can't control what your poor DH has to do, but you can completely control your input.
What a little monster.
I have cut her off. When DHS
I have cut her off. When DHS interviewed her they asked her if I talk to her and SD15 told them that the only time i say anything to her is when she says hi to me and i say hi back. Its been like this for years. I do not consider her a part of my family. I know it might sound mean, but even my kids know she is not part of our family. This isnt our first time with crazy allegations, the older SD, when she was 10 reported lies against me about drug use. I cannot tell you how embarrassing it is having your house searched and having to have a UA done, all while being pregnant.
So I have cut them both out. It really is the only way to protect my self and my kids.
What a horrible experience. I
What a horrible experience. I hope she gets her karma, and you get to witness it. Just appalling.