I keep my opinions about my BD11's father to myself for her sake. I can think anything I want but that is her father no matter what he does. I have 100% full custody and allow him EOW visitations as long as things are going well. He has never paid his CS on time, regularily, followed the CO about covering her medical, or even paying 50% of her unpaid medical. Yet I have always considered CS and visitation two seperate things and never let one effect the other. But today he really got my goat so to speak. He got a new job (he likes to skip around, he gets bored easily lol) but he is actually making decent money for a change and bragged all about this new job to me. I congratulated him (this was in front of my daughter) and told him I wished him the very best in his new career. So that was two months ago and since then ZERO in CS payments. I contacted CS and let them know I'm not getting anything and they stated they have sent his employer the wage witholding letter but until they start that he is responsible to make his payments, well he hasn't. I am not struggling without the money but it is the summer and BD11 is doing a lot of stuff and he should help with her expenses. So he calls her today to say hey and tell her about this charter fishing boat he's been on all day and how much fun he's having at the beach!!!!!!!!!!! Really? You can't send your child support but you can go on a charter fishing boat! This dude lives on his mama's couch, has a car dating back to the same year I graduated high school so no payment, no bills, and instead of paying his one bill, he goes to the beach! And I've been at home for the last 6 hours doing work I brought home, but he can go to the beach! It took A LOT to bite my tongue in front of my BD11 today. And I just want to say F YOU ex-H, I hope a shark eats you!