BM Inappropriately Touched DF
Ugh! I am so livid right now. DF and I are in the SD's home state for our wedding. All of our family lives in the same state so we decided to get married here. DF went to the school to pick up the SDs. BM asked for a signed document about this weekend, which DF agreed to give her. He asked her to sign both copies so he would have one as well. After they were done signing, DF put the pen in his front pocket. BM found another form in SD7's backpack. Without a word, she reached over and stuck her hand in my DF's pocket and grabbed the pen. She literally had her whole hand in his pocket. DF jumped back and told her not to touch him. She smiled at him and told him he didn't used to protest. Ew! DF laid into her about boundaries. And right before we left, she tried to reach over and grab his butt. I don'tknow what she was thinking, but that is completely uncalled for. It took all of my control not to tell her off. Anyone else ever deal with this????
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Wow! No, I've never dealt
Wow! No, I've never dealt with this. I have dealt with-in the past- inappropriate texts, though.
I honestly would have ended up in jail over assault. I really would have slapped the shit outta her, or punched her in the throat!!!! :sick: No joke!
She did it to get your goat
She did it to get your goat and she got it. Your DF did fine with his immediate reaction. You're getting married and live in a different state, it was her last 'hurray'. You telling her off after DF already immediately nipped her actions would have been a cherry on her ice cream sundae.
She got the message loud and clear from the person that it most needed to come from. Think how foolish she looked when he jumped and recoiled from her instantly. Coming from you would have pleased BM to pieces to see she has the ability to make you all upset and jealous....instead you stood quiet and kept in her presence the sense of security in your relationship and your about to be married to the man who loves and has chosen you.
LOL. She thought she was so
LOL. She thought she was so hot to trot that DH would just love feeling her hand in his pocket. Then when he physically recoiled, she panicked made a comment referencing their sexual history in order to make sure he remembered that they had history and that he's her property. Then she tried to save face by motioning to grab his behind.
Just laugh at how pathetic and desperate she is. I mean, geez, it's gotta be pretty humiliating when you put a hand in a guy's pocket and he jumps back to get away from you.
Somebody is feeling pretty sad that DH is getting married and is questioning her dominance and attractiveness. DH did the best thing possibly by being disgusted with her advances.
Ive never seen BM try ti
Ive never seen BM try ti physically touch DH but before she decided she hated everyone she used to make sure she had pics on her phone to show DH a lot and at transfers she would show him the pics but instead of just handing him the phone she would stand all close to him so they could both see the phone together (which caused issues with SD about 3-4 then). SD started paying attention to this and asking both BM and DH why they weren't together and why they split up, etc. Bm calls DH and talks to him about it to make sure they are on the same page as to what they are telling her and she says "Sd wants to know if we are going to get back together or if we can so.....you wanna?" NO laugh or just kidding. DH said "I truly hope SD isn't where she can hear you because that isn't going to make matters any easier for her to understand and no I deff don't want to get back together with you. We divorced for a reason and in the future don't say things like that to me because you are seriously crossing a line. You are engaged, I am engaged. You also have a child with your fiancé and my fiancé is pg. Think about how many people you just completely disrespected by even saying that." BM was so embarrassed. She has NEVER said anything like that to him again and now a days she wont look either of us in the eye so no more worries there...lol. P.S. as other said you handled the situation wonderfully. I hope I would have the same restraint you did.
Honestly we probably would
Honestly we probably would have pressed sexual harassment/ assault charges on BM if she went that far...I was telling my DH about this and he was like remember when BM asked me if I wanted to get back with her? Im like yup I actually wrote about that. He says that was far enough, if she touched me like that Id call the cops and press charges, then go home and burn my jeans...lol
At the last court hearing H
At the last court hearing H was in, Uberskank wore this lovely summer dress. That was very low cut. At the end of everything, she turned around in her seat to face him and bent at the waist.
This put her hooters on display and she stayed in this pose for the entire conversation.
What cracked me up? H would not look at her at all. She wasted all that free boobage on someone that is completely repelled by her.
HA HA HA, I love this, give
HA HA HA, I love this, give her a pat and say "GOOD GAME!" }:)
BM seems to be comfortable
BM seems to be comfortable when she's around FH because she'll stand really close to him and have a conversation. He told me that when she dropped SD3 to him, BM brushed her fingers across his chest when she handed SD3 to him. This is weird! As much as I don't care for my sons dad and we are cordial, I don't want to be more that 5ft away from him! BM even arrived to pick SD3 up in short shorts and heels, then asked FH if he liked what she was wearing. Bitch you wear a size 15! FH said BM was trying to dress like me Becuase all the years he's known BM, she's NEVER worn things like that. BTW BM is married and work for back to FH that she would talk about how her husband is bigger and better in bed. Please BM.. FH told me how much of a bore you were.