I want the evil SD gone!
So my DH has been allowing the SD to barrow his truck since the BM took the SD car away due to a fight they had (happens all the time with them). She hadn't had contact with my DH for some time and then just started going to her grandparents (inlaws) place. So I find out that she has been telling my DH's family that I threatened to stab her baby then pour lemon juice over the stab wound. WTF??? I cant stand her and her drama! This is why she isn't allowed at my house. I wont talk to her and haven't talked to her for almost 2 years. and now this. God, when will it end? and when I talk to my DH about it, it is my fault that me and the SD don't get along. Its my fault and all the bad crap (her lying, stealing money and prescription drugs, and bringing needles into my house) never happened because she's just soooo innocent.
My DH family is constantly
My DH family is constantly believing anything and everything out of the SD mouth. And the best part is they always are quick to say "she's had a hard life because of her mom". What? I'm sorry I hate the BM but the DH was raising that kid as well.
I cant cut everyone out of my life, but I'm not a quiet gal either and I speak my mind when they try to tell me anything about/to do with SD.
He didn't know she was saying
He didn't know she was saying these things until I told him. His response wasn't what I wanted. it went something along the lines of "well, you hate her anyway"
I do tell him I don't want to hear anything to do with the SD. He always throws the "I know you hate my kids, but.... blah blah blah"
I don't care what she says. It does irritate me that others in my DH family just eat everything that comes out of this damn brats mouth. I wont go over to my Inlaws if I know she's over there. I go to extreme length just to keep her out of my life! I love my DH but his "im blind to everything involving my kids" shit is draining on me.
"Well, you hate her
"Well, you hate her anyway"
Um, excuse me but does your DH really expect you to have warm, fuzzy feelings for this nasty adult brat who treats you like garbage? I am shocked that anyone believes this story about you wanting to stab a baby and put lemon juice on the wounds. Couldn't she come up with something more believable? What a moron. Maybe DH should ask his special princess why she doesn't like you but of course that won't happen as these guilty daddies would never dream of holding their idiot brats responsible for anything. Its so much easier for them to blame their partner than it is for them to confront their own kids. Pathetic and disturbing.
Tell everyone that talks
Tell everyone that talks about her in your presence that you do not want to hear about her. If your husband starts in about her walk away. In the bathroom if necessary and out the door if it gets that bad.
In private conversations with others tell them you're not interested (they know the history) and change the subject. If its in a room of people such as a family dinner you'll have to listen just don't engage in conversation. If someone directs a comment directly to you about her tell them you lost interest in the kid years ago and change the subject "did you plant a garden this year"?
Block your social sites like Facebook and do not visit hers.
Listen. Do you really give one whit what this girl thinks about you? Has anyone come to you, such as the grandparents, and said "Horrible person you are spilling lemon juice on a open wound on her baby"? Come on no sane person believes someone consistently telling stories without wanting additional sources.
Do what I said above and get her out of your mind but if you simply can't then leave. Just pack it up and leave. Tell him it was a mistake, don't argue or discuss, just get the boxes and pack it up.
Yes I have already blocked my
Yes I have already blocked my social sites. I am actually right now planning an out for mothers day just in case my DH wants to go to his parents and the SD is there. My mother is helping me so I can just hang out at her house with bio kids. I just hate this brat. I really do. Those Skids have caused my nothing be problems. Thanks for all the advice everyone. Its nice to know that
there are others out there with lying back stabing Skids of their own.
Time to get an attorney and
Time to get an attorney and sue SD for defamation or whatever applies so you can force her to STFU. That your DH does not come down on his hell spawned lying skank drug whore of a daughter like a ton of shit in a 1gal Ziploc speaks volumes about him. That his family does not smack the piss out of SD when she opens her mouth to spout her evil crazy "stab the baby and pour lemon juice on the wound" crap speaks volumes about that entire shallow and polluted gene pool.
Time to go start a new life with these toothless morons far behind you.
IMHO of course.
Take care of yourself.
Rags, I really enjoy reading
Rags,
I really enjoy reading your posts. Your descriptions are very creative and they always make me laugh.
When my SDs have done crap
When my SDs have done crap like this I've told DH that they are not allowed in our home at all. Period. Then one time after oldest SD pulled something, and then comes over to our house to see her sister (who was 16 at the time) and I came home and saw her there. I came right into the house, looked her straight in the eye, and told her to get out of my house -- that she was not welcome. She looked dumb founded. I then repeated it and yelled for her to GET OUT OF MY HOUSE! She left.
There was another time she showed up here, and was sitting on the ground throwing a fit (she was 22 years old) -- and then she calls her Dad trying to go above my head -- and then tells my DH that I'm crazy (while I'm standing there) -- I LOST IT. I grabbed her backpack and threw it down the stairs as I was screaming for her to get out of my house. I then opened the door -- still screaming -- for her to get out -- began throwing her stuff out the front door. Not one of my prouder moments, but here's the thing -- if DH would be doing his job and protecting me, this would have never happened.
I've come to the realization that my skids are just plain assholes.