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Girls are harder than boys

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Submitted by FeelinTrapped on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 2:20pm

I have noticed that boys are so much easier than girls. They might rough house and are always getting into mischief but girls whine ALOT. Maybe its just my personal situation. My step daughter is only 3 i have been there from day 1. Yet she treats me like i am the worst person she has ever met. She cries all the time for no reason. I ask her if she is hurt or if someone was mean to her and she wont answer me. I am getting very frustrated. Even my boys try to comfort her and she just continues crying! HELP!!!!!

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Submitted by nomore on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 2:34pm

I find that to be true as well. My SS is 7 and SD is 9. She's way more dramatic and always has something to complain about my but SS is such a darling. Sure boys have there moments but girls..watch out, lol.

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Submitted by now4teens on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 3:08pm

You have NO IDEA!!!

I am a mom of 2 boys (19 and 16). Sure they have their issues, and one is even special needs, but overall, it's been pretty easy with them.

Now on the other hand...I have 3 SDs (19, 17, and 14) and since I have been in their lives (almost 7 years now) it has been nothing but constant stress and drama.

And because they learned this behavior from their crazy, dysfunctional BM, I don't see it changing...ever!

Give me boys ANY TIME!!!

"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"

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Submitted by Wicked.Step.Monster on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 3:22pm

Yep, give me a boy ANY DAY!!!! I have a 17 year old boy and SS22. I also have SD14 and SDstb11 and lord have mercy!!!! I keep thinking after 9 years it'll get easier but ohhhhh no!! Those boys have been a piece of cake compared to the girls!

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Submitted by Richberg on Sun, 01/10/2010 - 6:29am

The answer to why girls are harder - DRAMA its beyond me why but they are all wired for it and when you have to female Drama zapping it gets twice as crazy , then you add a guy into the mix and he becomes crazy for being around it then the smokes start to rise and at some point fire breaks out and then when you think about or finally put the fire out and see what started it , It was about NOTHING . . .

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Submitted by stepof 1nitemare on Sun, 01/10/2010 - 8:33am

I too have 3 BS ages 11, 6 ans 9 months.. and one SD 8.. She is a million times harder than the three boys put together.. She has wreaked havoc on our home, our family, and our relationship.. If you have read or read my past blogs you will see that she is one of the most manipulative (and dangerous) children alive.. Give me 15 boys over one girl anyday!!!!!!!!!