Ex cleaned up.....
He is moving to north carolina, he wants to see his sons before he moves. (he hasnt seen them in over a year) i am conflicted becasue i have no problem with that but my husband will. He has been the sole provider for them and is angry that he shows up when he feels like it. I struggled with addiction and know what my ex is going through and getting clean and needing forgiveness..... Well i guess i just will do whats in my heart. IDK! Hopefully my ex gets signed to the AAA ball team up there and he will work for airline. Who knows maybe he will pay child support (Wouldnt that be the day)
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I know how your DH feels.
I know how your DH feels. I've always felt that way about my SDs. It's so unfair that WE raise THEIR children, yet get NONE of the credit and ALL of the crap!
I don't look at it as far as
I don't look at it as far as what the rights of the adults are. I look at it from what is right for the kid. The kid has a right to have a relationship with his parents even when those parents are unsavory. There are mechanisms in which the kid can be safeguarded, such as supervised visits. It doesn't seem like that is the problem though here. It sounds like it is your husband's jealousy that is causing you conflict even though you know in your heart you should let your son see his father.
As sucky as it is for the
As sucky as it is for the full time parents, if your children want to see their father, they should be able to. Your husband shouldn't take his frustrations with their father out on them, and I think thats what not letting them see him would feel like to the kids. They've got to be hurting too
"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"
Well my oldest who is 5 only
Well my oldest who is 5 only sees his Bio dad once a year on his bday and this past year he didnt show up.....so he never calls randy doesnt even know who he is....all he knows is his dad when he was a baby is jeremy and he sees him once a year. I will do what i have to when the time comes he wcan see him but i dont need him to act like hes dad of the year when he shows up he needs to be sorry