Ha! Just reclaimed my living room!
I am so done.
SD12(stb 13) Always takes over my cosy, wood fire warmed, large screen TV, with cable living room. Sprawls her lazy arse on MY sofa, covers herself in MY throw.
While I find somewhere else in the house to be. Feel uncomfortable and awkward in MY home. And the kids living room sits empty.
Well no more.
After all the manipulative behaviour, the lies, the sneakiness, and the mini wife behaviour I have had enough.
NOT TAKING IT ANYMORE!!!!
Got home and she was making her breakfast, helping herself to the milkshake stuff I buy as occasional treats for all the kids (piggy will have 3 in a day sneaky and greedy) Oh, I also hid the eggs so she couldn't take over my usual treat of breakfast in bed for OH which she did last time.
Anyway, i stoked up the fire, turned the tv on to MY choice and made coffee for OH and myself. Literally asi pick up the coffee cups to carry them in to the bedroom where OH is shee bangs on the door and he lets her, she sidles up to MY side of the hed and does her little girl voice grrrrr, i take his coffee in and stand there til she leaves the room. I think she would have settled in on MY side of the bed if i had left.
Then when i came back out her and ss were about to settle in my living room and change the channel, told her don't even think about it. They are now upstairs in their space, i rule in my home and dont ever forget it sd.
Oh and you will be sorry you ever messed withme kid, because you may be a little bitch, but i am a big one, QUEEN bitch in this house in fact.
I also made her put the milkshake back and told her yet again not to help herself to things i buy as special treats for all the kids, wait to be offered.
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Good for you. I used to
Good for you.
I used to tiptoe around the skids as well. I would complain to DH and he would tell me to just take charge. So I did. Oh WOW! Amazing how you can clear a room of smelly boys when you turn on C-Span or Antiques Roadshow.
Although I miss the afternoons OSS and I would make fun of QVC (home shopping channel here in the USA) after school.... He told me one time he was watching TV with his mother (a big QVC fan) he was laughing so hard and his mother was telling him to shush. Then he heard his mother doing a phone in for a product. She was sitting in her hallway talking to the commentator while he son was cracking up in the living room.
OH would just expect me to
But the way i figure it, if she can be sweet as pie to me when he is present and a bitch on wheels behind his back and she always gets the benefit of the doubt with him - I must be misunderstanding her!!!
I can behave in kind. Nothing overt - just not being anything to her when he is not there, i will not be nice, try to engage etc. I will tell her what she needs to know, call her out on her shitty behaviour, and basically she can live by my rules.
And if she complains to dear ol' dad i will say "oh she must have misunderstood me!" And expect the same benefit of the doubt he gives her.
I am pissed. Finally, fully pissed. And they all need to learn PDQ not to mess with me anymore because as the song says "we're not gonna take it!"
I'm going to be really
I'm going to be really unhappy if that song gets stuck in my head
LOL Twisted Sister. Congrats
LOL Twisted Sister.
Congrats Luchay. I'd sprawl out all over that living room.
Oh i did lol, i dont usually
Oh i did lol, i dont usually watch tv during the day but i am having a do nothing day, am tired!
So then she spent the last two hours making herself at home in MY room whenever OH was in there. That room is a kid free zone, but apparently not for her. He didn't say anything. Neither did I, but you can bet my sexiest lingerie will be left very visible! And if that doesnt keep her out my liitle friend or a box of condoms accidentally left on the bedside table...
I am taking control. Not complaining to him and waiting patiently for him to step up and deal anymore!
Don't forget the 5" heeled
Don't forget the 5" heeled fuzzy slippers & the big bottle of Nutella next to the bed
Was thinking of a bottle of
Was thinking of a bottle of really kinky looking massage oil or lube actually, nutella and she would just think I was pigging out like she would }:)
Miaow.
Well Luchay, maybe dip the
Well Luchay, maybe dip the strapon INTO the open jar of Nutella }:)
Tell her, "Now that's stepmom's morning biscotti"
I think it's creepy how she
I think it's creepy how she crawled into your bed. what the hell? skids hardly ever go into our room, and if they do it's only because I've asked them to run in there to get something. maybe when sd was youngers I would let her cuddle with her in there.. but she was like 3 then.
Though with the milkshake thing, could it just be due to different rules at BM's house about food? maybe she's not used to having to ask when she wants treats?
My dd's only ever enter our
My dd's only ever enter our room if they've been asked to grab something too.
We've done the no kids in our room chat.
As for the milkshake she knows the rules here, she sneaks things when I'm not there, only 8 came home and caught her. We've told her over and over what she can help herself to and what is off limits. She's a very greedy girl. My dd7 had some leftover fairy floss in a container, i left it on top of the fridge. DD's can't reach it, ss doesn't eat it but most of it has gone. She knows it's not ok, she just takes what she wants.
Right now it's Sunday morning. We are in bed but all 4 kids are in the main lounge. We have 2 3 seater sofas. I can hear them fighting because sd is sprawled out over one and refuses to move so one of mine can have some space. She doesn't know we can hear her.... }:)