Ok, first of all I have to say that I can never sleep! I hate it and I'm always tired!

But anyways...my bf and I went out tonight and I felt karma was getting back at me! Everywhere we went somebody had something to say bad about their kids or step-kids. By the end of the night I felt like it was to make me feel bad about punishing my bf's son the other day... I know it doesn't work like that but I felt like I was in the wrong for doing it... My bf actually was honest with me last night and told me that he was upset that I punished his son without talking to him first but after thinking about it he came to the realization that I'm an extension of him so he is backing me up on the punishment. He did also tell me that he called BM to tell her why his son wouldn't have his DS at her house and after some argument she agreed. Apparently she didn't feel like I should punish their kids at all....sorry but I am home with those kids more than their mom, step-dad and dad put together so YES, I DO have a right to punish or discipline the kids. I probably know them better than their BM does! I feel if she has a problem with it then she needs to take HER kids full-time...not just when it fits her schedule. I really do feel like telling her off when I see her but like my dad reminds me...I was brought up with class and dignity so I can't do it. I do have to say though...I hate it!