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Submitted by insight on Sat, 07/04/2009 - 7:58pm

Thank you very much for being so supportive. It means so much to me..
I'm a mess today. Well, I'm trying to fight my anger.
I was almost out of the door when he showed up with bunch of friends. Only thing he said, "So you are leaving?" I said, that I am.
He didn't even say anything and just went right inside of the house.
I can't believe him. Oh well, actually that reenforcing me to concentrate on myself even more.
I'm young, happy, educated and ambitious. I can't believe that this is all I've got for two years of accommodation of his lifestyle.

I hope everybody is having great july 4th.

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Submitted by Tara12 on Sun, 07/05/2009 - 12:22am

Because he is all about control. He sounds just like my ex a week ago. I packed his clothes only because he stayed out and got drunk and didn't come home and when he came home he got pissed and his attitude is well I'll show her and he packed everything down to the post-it pads in the house. Typical angry male behavior. The "you will not control me I will show you a thing or two". This after living together for over a year and half and planning to be married by the end of the year. I mean we were making wedding plans two weeks ago - how pathetic is that? That is the same as your BF's attitude - you want to leave go ahead - and he isn't going to stop you - and in his mind why should he - because YOUR the one with the problems remember? He refuses to take responsibility in any part of the relationship. I'm sorry that your holiday was ruined because of this self-centered a-hole. Hang in there....